Hands down, hand jobs have the potential to be the most stressful of all the sex acts. Unlike the mighty and powerful blow job , they are not something that only you can do for your partner unless he's really flexible, in which case, lucky lady! And the scene can often play out as awkward: There you are, halfheartedly jerking your hands in an attempt to create a pleasurable experience for your partner — one that he had down to a science by age Before you let a defeatist attitude keep you from trying, remember: a lot of men love getting hand jobs, just like how you probably like require some digital action, too. Here are a few things to keep in mind the next time you offer to give your guy a hand. Yes, the tip of the penis is super-sensitive. But just as many women love being touched along the outer and inner labia as well as the super important clitoris , the entire length of the penis deserves love. A few basics before you begin: If you've been nursing a frozen margarita all night or playing with ice cubes, do your guy a favor and run your hands under warm water so his penis doesn't mistake you for liquid nitrogen.


3. Use lube—always—for a good hand job.
1. Start with a conversation about hand jobs.
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Whether it's for nostalgic reasons or because your partner still just really loves a good, old-fashioned hand J, sometimes you gotta revisit an old classic. What are we ever to do about balls? Still have no clue what I'm supposed to do with your balls in this situation. Should I tickle them with a feather duster? Sing them a song? Please just tell me, I'm so lost. Oooh, maybe I'll break out into a hand jive, that'd be fun right? Your face looks like you're in pain but you said this feels great, so I'll keep going I guess?
Many people seem to believe that giving a hand job is the most boring form of two-person sexual activity. They're what we did as awkward teenage couples before losing our "real" virginity , and they often serve as the climax no pun intended for many stories that begin with, "This one time at a shady strip club But just like any activity that involves the removal of clothes, they also leave the potential for some truly gross things to happen.