Having no predetermined sexual script looming over you gives you the freedom to do whatever the f works for you. With vulva to vulva non bonery, you also have a slight home court advantage of knowing your way around the equipment, since you've got similar stuff going on between your legs. And if you don't happen to possess a vulva sorry, mate , you can still use some of these tips to get a few ideas about what kinds of things a woman might like. If you both love the kind of orgasm that come from grinding against something , create a win-win situation with a mutual hand grind. Lie face down side-by-side. Fill your hand with lube and cup it under your girl's vulva, while she does the same for you. As you get more turned on thrusting against their hand, you can feel their body responding to your hand and, well, it's pretty effing heady. Turn your heads to gaze at each other to make it even more intimate. Take opposite ends of the couch, lean back on the arms and masturbate with each other for a surprisingly intimate experience. It's part performative, part voyeuristic, plus you get to touch yourself exactly as you please which can double as a teachable moment.
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Our sex positions tool can be used to filter through all positions we have on the site. Use it to find the best positions for just about any encounter. In fact, people have been mixing things up since, well, probably since we started hooking up. However, it was an ancient Hindu text called the Kama Sutra that popularized finding innovative ways to get laid. The Kama Sutra was written between and AD and was published in English in , but it really took off when a version started circulating on the Internet. And that, essentially, is a brief history of how you landed here, in search of new ways to enjoy sex with your partner. Trying a new sex position can mean exploring new erogenous zones. It can amp up effort and excitement. It can switch the usual power dynamic between you and your partner.
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Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Note: While many of these directions reference male partners, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone.
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