Screw manicures and blowouts: Masturbation is the ultimate act of self-care. You might think I'm crazy -- but you need to get in touch with yourself before you can get in touch with anyone else. Before spicing up your relationship, worry about spicing up your self-love. Here are some incredible masturbation positions you never knew you needed. Why it works: Sex against the wall can be hot, but it's pretty complicated. Meanwhile, masturbating against the wall is just plain sexy. Plus, blood rushes to your genitals while standing and this makes for better orgasms. How to do it: Stand facing the wall.

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Solo Sex Positions to Try for a Seriously Incredible Weekend
Sex positions are often the go-to tip for spicing up your sex life with a partner. This is too bad because sometimes masturbation might be about a quickie with yourself, but it also can be an opportunity for self-care and self-love. For example, many of us keep very stiff when we masturbate, and only relax once we have climaxed. This impacts how the sex we're having with ourselves feels.
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Sexy ways to get down with your bad self. Illustrations by Jenny Yuen. You've had a long hard day, so why not lie down and put your hands straight down your underwear because you're too lazy to take them off. Purse still over your shoulder, heels flying off because you need it now. You feel like trying something new tonight so try using your opposite hand to masturbate. It'll feel weird, almost like you're fooling around with someone for the first time, and that's what makes it so completely hot.
In fact, I was so blown away when I learned that one of my close friends had gotten off with male partners, but had never given herself an orgasm that I decided to give her the gift of a personal vibrator. As useful as our hands can be, the assistance of a high-powered, well-designed vibrator like the We-Vibe Touch which hones in on your clitoris or the Crave Duet a personal favorite can definitely help you cross the finish line without the assistance of anyone else in your bed. So light some candles, fill up the tub, lie back, and let the faucet run straight onto your clit. If you have a removable shower head, point the nozzle there instead.